It is very difficult for many men to set up dates regularly, even if they are around single women most of their time. So, it is easy to imagine how difficult it is for the average man to date a woman who is used to being on her own.
Feeling lonely and wanting shortly after a break up is completely normal, but these feelings can melt away if you can make through a couple of months without committing to someone. If you get to the point where you start to remember the things you wanted to do while you were in a relationship but never could or weren’t allowed to, then you start doing them regularly. Eventually, the thoughts about looking for a partner become non-existent, as you feel good being on your own.
Still, it is very important to remember how women who have been single for a long time came to have these types of needs and passions, and it is crucial do remember why they have them. With such perspectives, people can be happy, successful, peaceful and entirely independently. Needless to say, anyone is open to enhanced happiness with a partner, no matter how satisfied they currently are, so this independence is not negative. But, although it is worth it for a man to seek a relationship with a woman who has been single for a long time, this doesn’t mean that it will be easy.
So, what to expect when dating a woman who has been on her own for a long time? You will notice many differences between her and the women you have dated before, as she is harder nut to crack. However, once you manage to figure her out, you will realize how worth it she is.
There are good reasons for her being different, primarily because she is used to alone time, she wants to be vulnerable, she is not used to having help, she is sensitive, yet protective… and many more.
If a man has already gone through transformation of this kind on his own, he stands a chance. If not, the struggle will be quite difficult and intense. We all know that it is a different world for men and women, and even in the most developed countries men have enjoyed various privileges over women. Women have had to work much harder for less money, to step aside or stand back, and to speak louder with less effect. Still, just like there are reasons why men find it difficult to date a woman who has been on her own for a long time, there are reasons why it is worth for them to try.