All human beings are capable of both absorbing and emitting energy vibrations. Absorbing the energies of other people can be a burden, so it is important to learn how to deal with the energies of this world without letting them affect you and your well-being.
The advantage of being an empath is one can recognize the energy within others, understand them, and heal themselves and the world.
The disadvantage of being an empath is falling into a state of confusion and chaos, given the too many energies around them.
Here are 5 ways to become a healer without hurting yourself in the process.
1. Be confident
You need confidence in order to start emitting your own energies rather than only receiving them. The moment you start doing this, you start changing everything. So, believe in yourself and use the power to change.
2. Let go of the insecurity
Insecurity and the tendency to please everyone is the major obstacle that prevents you from becoming a healer. If someone doesn’t like you, there is no need to focus on them. Being depended on others only makes you lose your confidence.
It is imperative to let go of this. We are all different! Those with negative energies will never reciprocate to good vibes.
3. Be optimistic; convert others` negativity into positivity
Insecure empaths tend to get dragged into others` negativity as they absorb the negative emotions and feel the pain.
Instead of absorbing the pain, you need to understand it and convert the negativity into positive energies. There is always another way, even when it seems like there are not other alternatives available.
Ty to find out the positive aspects of everything. This will make you feel better, while helping you heal the other person at the same time.
4. Help others find out their positive sides
It is imperative for an empath to love themselves, but it is as important to make others love themselves as well. This is crucial as it allows an empath to heal the people around them.
Show them their strengths, their talents, their positive sides; make them feel good about themselves so that they can be optimistic and radiate positivity.
5. Stay Calm
Don’t overreact or freak out no matter how tough and stressful the situation is. Even if a person makes you made and pulls you in a zone of stress and tension, remember that you are able to heal everything. Don’t become anxious or overreact as this will only create negative vibes and more trouble.
Becoming a healer isn’t that difficult though. All you have to do is to focus on yourself, your capabilities, your positivity, and the positivity of the universe. You can heal the world. You are an empath! After all, being a healer is what makes one an empath.
‘As empaths, we are not here to be sponges or enablers. We are here to be helpers, guides, and supporters.’ – Aletheia Luna, Awakened Empath: The Ultimate Guide to Emotional, Psychological and Spiritual Healing.