7 Traits of a Personality That Others Find Hard to Handle Because You Are Too Deep

Have you ever felt that you see world differently to others? Do you have the sensation that you notice things that others fail to notice?  If yes, don’t worry. You aren’t weird, but deeper instead.  You are curious and complex, capable of seeing the world more “deeply” than others.

Although there are various benefits to this, the chances are most people find it difficult to handle you.  If this might be the case, you are likely to identify with these 7 personality traits:

1. You say what you mean and mean what you say

Most people fear to speak their mind as they want to avoid being criticized.  In other words, they don’t want to be seen as weird for thinking outside the box.  But, you aren’t anything like this. You say what you mean and mean what you say!

2. You don’t depend on others for your happiness

We have all been in a relationship which consumes you, and leaves you feeling traumatized when it is all over.  You learn from such experiences as they make you realize that being who you are is the only way to happiness.

“No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path.”

3. You hate small-talk

You hate small-talks and conversations which lack meaning. You are into deep and meaningful conversations, as you genuinely want others to express themselves and be honest.

4. Action is what matters to you

We all know at least one person who is a flatterer and able to convince anyone about anything by using persuasive and competent manner.  While they seemingly say the right words, they don’t act upon it.

You are aware of the importance of action and you tend to use critical thinking skills to see whether someone is or not the real deal.

5. You love to listen to others and learn about other people

You are interested in learning and fully aware of the fact that learning is one of the most important aspects of one`s life.  When you learn something about someone, it feels like you have entered a new world.   This makes you a great conversationalist, as the other person feels comfortable and calm, basically like they are the only person on the planet at the present moment.

6. You don’t seek attention

Seeking attention because of your status or appearance simply isn’t your thing.  You find this meaningless and superficial.  You want to be recognized by your depth and complexity, so you take time to get to know someone.  You know that there is much more than what appears at first.

7. You can’t stand insensitivity, idiocy or ignorance

You are extremely proud of your self-taught knowledge.   This is why you get upset when others judge about things and people they don’t little or nothing about.  Thinking for yourself is an extremely important quality, especially in the world of Google and algorithmic newsfeeds when you have little control over.

Sources:

http://ewao.com/2017/11/09/7-traits-of-a-personality-that-others-find-hard-to-handle-because-youre-too-deep/

https://hackspirit.com/7-signs-deep-personality-people-cant-handle/