Strength is not something we are born with, rather something we develop out of pain or trauma. Strong women are women who have felt weak and helpless at a certain point of their lives. This strength developed gradually and was nurtured and cared for over the years. Every woman who is strong enough has earned this strength and has scars which are invisible to the naked eye.
With this being said, it`s no wonder every strong woman has made promises to herself, which serve as reminded to never let be the weak girl she had once been.
Here Are 5 Promises Every Woman Has Made To Herself
1. SHE PROMISED TO NO LONGER GIVE UP PIECES OF HERSELF TO APPEASE HIM
Any strong woman has faced the challenge of giving up pieces of herself that she is fond of to satisfy someone who doesn’t value her as a whole person. No matter if it`s her job, her ambitions, her friends, or her interests, any strong woman has promised to no longer give up pieces of herself.
2. SHE PROMISED SHE WOULD NEVER WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE
Any strong woman had once hoped that she could change him if she loved him enough, but this was a huge mistake that she will never make again. People can change only if they want to and no love can change them into better. Waiting for someone to change for the better will only bring frustration and disappointment. Luckily, every strong woman is well aware of this and will
3. SHE PROMISED NEVER TO SETTLE FOR LESS THAN SHE DESERVED
Strong women have gone through difficult periods in the life when she basically let herself suffer for believing that there is something good in every person. Eventually, she would find out that she couldn’t love a person who simply doesn’t deserve it. When she gained the strength she needed, she promised herself to never settle for less than she deserved.
4. SHE PROMISED HERSELF SHE WOULD NEVER BE CAUGHT UP IN HIS GAMES
A strong woman has once been struggling with the mind games that were basically designed for her to lose. However, after all of this mess and mind games, she made a promise to herself to stay away from these people and games, don’t allow anyone to make the rules for her.
5. SHE PROMISED HERSELF SHE WOULD NEVER AGAIN BE USED
As already discussed earlier, any strong woman was forced to gain strength one way or another. After letting others abuse her emotionally for convenience, she made a promise to herself to never let herself be used again. She learned the hard way that she was worth much more than what she was being used for.
Strong women have a list of promises that have made to themselves, and these promises are what keep them mentally and emotionally healthy. Strong women have learned the hard way not to settle or allow being used again.