10 Uncomfortable Signs You’re Actually Becoming The Person You’re Supposed To Be

1.     You do everything by yourself and feel isolated from others

As you grow older, you become capable of handling things by yourself, so you don’t want to be anyone`s burden.  You often feel isolated and lonely, but you feel proud for being independent and strong at the same time.

2.     You realize that you have some issues with yourself

You realize that you do have some issues with yourself, whether it is about mood swings, trust issues, or anxiety.  Once you acknowledge them, you will start looking for ways to overcome them more easily.

3.     You have a strong desire to cut off some unnecessary relationships

A time goes by; you will realize that your social circle is quite tight, despite the fact that you have plenty of acquaintances.  You start to realize who is genuine and who isn’t.  You will initially feel guilty and disappointed, but you will also have a strong desire to cut off unnecessary relationships.

4.     It’s hard for you to trust people

As time goes by, you become less willing to buy people`s bullshit.  You become used to broken promises and betrayals, so it`s no wonder that you find it difficult to trust people.

5.     You always feel that your life is boring

It is difficult for you to feel fulfilled and happy with your life as it feels like there is so much to achieve.  The same work, the same hobbies, and the same routines will bore you and you will keep striving for more.

6.     You are too familiar with the feeling of sadness

You realize that life is not always about being happy.  So, you are able to accept failures, disappointment, sadness, and broken hearts.  More importantly, you realize that there were lessons from everything.

7.     You always feel like you’re running out of time

You find yourself in busy situations; you barely sleep, you find it difficult to spare time for your loved ones,  and you have struggle to find the time for yourself.  There is always something that has to be done, but you simply cannot find the time for everything.

8.     You regret the mistakes you’ve made in the past

You realize that you have made some bad decisions in the past, and you blame yourself for any of them. But, you also realize that regret will not help as it doesn’t take you anywhere.

9.     You always miss your childhood, family, and your loved ones

You often find yourself looking back to your childhood, family, and loved ones.  You live on your own and being separated from them is difficult.

10.  You feel lost, confused, and anxious about your future

You feel insecure very often, questioning yourself whether you are on the right track.  You are aware of the fact that unexpected things happen, so you don’t know how life is supposed to be.  However, in spite of all fears, you still manage to pull yourself together.